Sex therapy

Hey, let’s continue our sexual series! Today I want to raise the subject of sex therapy, healing tantric sex, therapy by swinging, practicing BDSM or opening up to polyamory. I see articles and videos on this subject everywhere now. Sex is became normal part of our life, we are became adults who not starting to laugh and course when talk about sex starts.

Scientists are got tons of evidence about benefits of sex. Now I would not sum it up – it’s subject for big series of articles. Sex is healthy in a short. Healthier than walk at the nature, balanced whole food and physical exercises.

So idea of sex as a therapy in open to sex society is an obvious one.

Prescribed sex for disabled people

Of course the most obvious is idea to prescribe sex to those who have lack of sex – disabled ones, elder ones, those who has sexual traumas or simply low self esteem because of traumatic childhood/youth. Look at this great Vice reportage on sex for disabled ones:

Spiritual healing sex

Another kind of sexual therapy – is so called spiritual sex. As for me it’s a quite controversial workaround of sexual guilt. People believe into some ancient Indian magic to avoid sexual guilt and shame. Ok, it’s works at least. But trough huge system of lie. Maybe you heard latest news about sexual abuse in Agama Yoga school tantric community. And, how most of observers said, it’s not the first and not the last case in tantric schools.

Sexual counseling and more common sex practices

More healthy way (as for me) is kind of psychological counseling related to sex. Psychologist just lead you or you and your partner and recommend some ways to improve your life, the whole one and the sexual one. It’s an non-intrusive way which taking into account your personality, your level of self-development, your temperament and what you like.

For example such counselor can introduce you to swinging or BDSM or polyamory. She can give you resources – books, websites, online and offline groups. If you feel comfortable with some of such culture she can recommend you to attend some event – cuddling poly jam, or BDSM dungeon or swingers club.

Of course, it’s just several examples of sexual therapy and not the full list. In later posts I will talk about other ones.

Swing, poly, open, alternative: the age of redefined relationships and sexuality

In the last post I talked about swingers clubs, Roblox and privacy decrease. After that I googled simple term: “swingers clubs” and among various niched directories I found lots of articles at mainstream magazines. Couple of examples: 13 Rules for Having a Blast in a Sex Club and EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW BEFORE YOU GET INTO SWINGING.

Articles are written in a friendly manner encouraging couples to safely try swinging by going to some sex club. Looks like something changed in the world. Thing which was alternative, counter culture, popular at underground libertarian groups, becoming mainstream.

Watch this introducing videos if you interested into this growing trend:

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People don’t value privacy anymore even in a sexual life!

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Stay tuned folks! Here we will talk about privacy, Facebook and swingers clubs.

We live in a funny time: people talk about privacy and in the same time ready to give their email passwords just to be featured on tv:

There are opinion that golden era of privacy is finished and it was XX century. Our parents told us not to talk to strangers, but now we are happy to share our location, details of what we do and with whom at Facebook and Instagram.

Today I want to share my thoughts on modern sexuality. Everybody knows Tinder – the app, where you share your location to strangers in hope of find sex or relationships. But Tinder is nothing in compare to growing popularity of swingers, bdsm, so called kinky people and polyamory people.

Swingers clubs number by continents

Swingers clubs number by continents

I took a look at  http://allswingersclubs.org/analytics.html . What I discovered surprised me: some countries host hundreds of official swingers clubs! But I was so naive, coz later I discovered http://fetlife.com/ – the bottom part of iceberg with tons of local and niched groups on any kind of so called alternative sex. Demand on having sexual experiences with strangers is huge.

RoseWould Plantation Sex & Swingers Club @ Second Life

RoseWould Plantation Sex & Swingers Club @ Second Life

Even kids oriented virtual world Roblox has issues related to wish to have sexual activities with strangers. Of course they don’t have swingers clubs there, or sex rooms, like some Second Life places . But Roblox definitely have shocking issues related to sex (sex room issue, gang rape issue – it’s became meme).

Roblox sex rooms can shock parent

And I can guess that it’s not only problem related to the adult child predator lurking into the game but big change in the world and new generations. Younger gens don’t value privacy anymore. And examples with sexual life are the great indicator of this.